For heaven's sake, the DOD has even set up a mailing list (dod.mil) if you REALLY wanna read this stuff but can't be bothered to do your own research. No pinups of Wolfowitz, Rumsfeld and Gen. Myers yet, though. Too bad...they're so DREAMY. (sigh)
I always thought that this (cnn.com) was a pretty cut and dried ethical issue and wouldn't require much debate. It always seemed obvious to me that a professor shouldn't have a sexual relationship with one of their students, especially an undergrad.