Saw this yesterday. Talk about a slow burn of a movie. LOTS of time building to the climax, which, considering most horror movies these days, was not much of a climax. But, overall, a decent entertaining movie. My only problem was Liv Tyler was so unlikable in this, you WISHED she was already murdered about half way through it.
Well if your daughter has a better grasp of zen/buddhism than anybody you met then it's not really fair to compare the movie to her since she doesn't have the knowledge of a normal kid or adult, or according to you, anybody.