The ladies also seem to use more of the thread-starting icons (though 7 or 8 threads may not be a good sample size). Attention to detail? Appreciation for ornamentation? Newness of the forum? You be the judge.
Is there a way to make a tab on people's posts to send them a private message instead of clicking on their name and scrolling to the bottom of their profile? Also, how about a delete all button in the inbox?