This may be in the wrong forum, but...I was watching the news this morning and Katie Couric was interviewing the father of PFC Lynch. Evidently, there was a report that she had not sustained any gunshot wounds during her POW ordeal. Couric broke out all her skills and posed the question: Now that the reports say your daughter hasn't sustained any gunshot wounds, are you glad to hear your daughter wasn't shot?
It probably goes hihgly underreported too. Not many men will own up to it if it does happen. Combine that with a legal system that is more sympathetic towards women in these cases and it is most certainly no-win.